Preconceived Notions
by Brian on May 28, 2010
in Commentary
I’ve been thinking a lot about preconceived notions lately. I know they can be dangerous because a preconceived notion is essentially an assumption, and we all know what happens when you assume…
Yet, as much as I try to suppress preconceived notions, as much as I try not to pass judgment or assume I can predict what will happen, it’s always there, in the back of my mind. So, in realizing that I will never completely stop this behavior, I am going to make an effort to acknowledge it more and perhaps use it for the powers of good.
I’m, of course, thinking of preconceived notions developed around social interactions; especially meeting new people and prior to social engagements. My thoughts are that a misguided preconceived notion may actual detract from what I could be getting and giving in a relationship.
Lately, I’ve been pushing aside some of my preconceived ideas surrounding things I’m uncertain about, and I’ve been very pleasantly surprised with the results.
Perhaps preconceived notions are intertwined with fear of the unknown, some sort of primordial defense mechanism which forces us to assume the worst in an effort of self-preservation.
So my social experiment continues.
Food for thought?
